it does, and it did serve its purpose for me the last few weeks.
an auntie wrote to me via email and asked for the blogs to stop in exchange of her, taking care of my family not being ambushed by unnecessary talks from her evil sisters. she explained to me (and rang my mom and sister) that she was hurt by what her sisters had done and clarified issues with talks about things she said about my dad’s funeral.
she was quite too defensive about her involvement about the whole fracas, and i think its because she doesnt want to be named and included in my blog. this even if my blog was just seen by networks only.
i am NOT proud of what i have done. and id never advocate for people to do the same when in anger. but that was the only way i can hurl pain and insults their way, without being cut-off on the phone(if i rang them on the phone/plus i hate spending phone bills on people i dont care for), and i couldn’t wait to tell them my piece of mind til i get to the phils.
it was even more hurtful for them coz i know they read my blogs (as i am friends with their children/my cousins) and as networks, they can read my blog too. and i could see their ugly faces in my screen every single day.
in the end, my auntie wrote to me and thanked me when i promised to put the blog about her sisters on hold for the moment (until i hear anything new) and promised in return that she will see to it that none of this nonsense will continue. although she also is trying to bridge the gap between my family and her family (aunties and my lola), i conceded to my mom going to my lola’s house as we have nothing against our lola. she was just manipulated by the evil sisters. i told her, i cant promise to build bridges and be friends with the two sisters as i have said things i cannot renege on. there comes a point when turning back is not an option and in my case, i have said things (and they have done and said things) which being friends is quite impossible.
it is sad because i have tried to be a peacemaker in the family but with their attitude and lack of family values, i dont think peacemaking from a mortal being is the answer. divine intervention would be the better option.
so, blogs do work. keep blogging guys=)
